An often-overlooked relationship is the one we have with our finances. As we celebrate the month of love, reflect on whether the relationship you have with your finances supports your long-term goals, or if a shift in that relationship is needed.

When you think about your finances, what’s the first feeling that comes to mind? Is it confidence? Indifference? Or perhaps anxiety? Like any relationship, your relationship with money requires consistent effort and care if you want it to be a fulfilling one. It’s also a malleable relationship, meaning that even if you feel overwhelmed by financial stress or detached from your goals right now, you can always change it to one that makes you feel confident about your financial future.

In psychology, a common way professionals assess relationships is through attachment theory. Attachment theory offers a framework for understanding how people form emotional bonds, particularly in early life with caregivers. These attachment styles include anxious, avoidant, and secure. Attachment theory can help us see how we approach all kinds of relationships, including the one we have with money!

First, understand your relationship with money was probably determined early on in life, maybe before you even understood the concept of money. This could be when you were a child seeing your parents or caregivers anxiously struggling to make ends meet, or seeing them spend money without considering long-term goals, etc. These early experiences shape how we interact with money and should be considered when assessing your current relationship with your finances. With that in mind, here’s how each attachment style may manifest in present-day financial behaviors:

Anxious

In the clinical sense, anxious attachment is characterized by a fear of abandonment and rejection. These individuals probably had inconsistent caregivers who were sometimes there and sometimes not. This made it hard for them to trust when things were good that the other shoe wouldn’t soon drop. When applied to finances, this could manifest as someone feeling overwhelmed, constantly worried that anything and everything could derail the progress they’ve made. These individuals often lack confidence in their ability to achieve their financial goals, even when all evidence suggests otherwise. Consumed by worry, they may find themselves paralyzed, unable to make the decisions necessary to reach their goals.

Avoidant

An avoidant attachment style involves a fear of closeness and difficulty trusting others as trusting others involved consistent disappointment in their earlier life. If someone has an avoidant style when it comes to their relationship with money, they may detach themselves from financial planning and long-term goals. If they avoid making goals, then there’s no fear of failure, but there will also never be any progress. These individuals might procrastinate, downplay the importance of financial milestones, or dismiss the need for accountability, all as a means of maintaining control while avoiding the potential disappointment that comes with falling short of their goals.

Secure

Finally, a secure attachment style enables an individual to feel safety, stability, and trust in close relationships. These are the people who had caregivers who offered affection when needed, encouraged independence, and were consistent. In the context of finances, someone with this attachment style approaches their goals with confidence. They trust their ability to make decisions that support their goals. They’re able to be present, engaged, and adaptable as circumstances change without feeling overwhelmed. Rather than fixating on the possibility of failure, they focus on success and the steps needed to achieve it.

Cultivating a Secure Attachment Style

If you feel like your attachment style leans avoidant or anxious at times, don’t worry! As stated previously, these attachment styles are malleable. This means you can change them! To cultivate a more secure attachment with your finances, think about what the behaviors of someone with a secure attachment might be. Some things you may want to consider:

• General Financial Wellness: This includes having a monthly budget, an emergency fund, and a robust savings account. All of these will lay a foundation for you to build towards your bigger goals, but remember growing a “robust savings account” or creating a monthly budget are goals in themselves. So don’t let this first part overwhelm you, break it down into smaller, manageable steps and turn each one into its own goal!
• Maintain Financial Awareness: It’s so easy to check out or lose focus on money. You see your monthly power bill or insurance premium go up, and you think, “Well it’s only $20.” But remember, that’s $240 a year! Push back the resistance that makes you want to ignore things, and instead keep track of bill increases, unnecessary purchases, and anything else that can burn a hole through your wallet. Being aware of these increases is the first step in mitigating them!
• Set Goals: Know what you want to accomplish, because if you neglect to define your goals you will never achieve them. If your goals feel overwhelming, break them up into smaller goals. When you’re setting bigger, long-term goals, consider the power of compound interest. The returns you can gain over time can significantly help you reach those goals. For example, if you know you want to retire one day and your employer has a matching 401(k) plan, perhaps at the very least contribute enough to take full advantage of that match. If you want to send your child off to college one day, look into a 529 plan. If you are starting younger with a few decades before retirement, time is on your side, so take advantage of it.
• Protect Yourself and Your Family: While preparing for the unexpected can be difficult, having a plan in place can help you face these challenges without feeling overwhelmed or shutting down. For this, you may want to consider a life insurance policy that works for you and your family. Life insurance policies have evolved over the last decade and can be better shaped to a policyholder’s needs, these policies can even have riders added to them to help you plan for long-term care. A will and/or estate plan will also help give you peace of mind knowing that if anything were to happen to you, you have taken steps to ensure your family will be taken care of, with your wishes spelled out and legally documented.
• Know Your Triggers: If your attachment style leans anxious or avoidant, understand what triggers that attachment style. You can change your attachment style, but it requires a commitment to remaining present and addressing those maladaptive traits when they pop up. For example, maybe when you receive a bill you put off looking at it until the day before a late fee kicks in. Receiving a bill is the trigger, how can you address that trigger? Maybe you can enroll in automatic payments, or maybe set aside time every so many days to go over your bills, or maybe something entirely different altogether. Addressing your triggers will be something for you to figure out and can widely vary from person to person. The first step for everyone, however, is to face those triggers head-on and look for a solution.
• Seek Help: Changing your attachment style is no small task, but you don’t have to do it alone! Partnering with an experienced financial advisor can make the process more manageable and less overwhelming. An advisor can help you define your goals, break them down into actionable steps, and provide guidance and support along the way!

If you’re looking for support in navigating your financial attachment style or want guidance to maintain a secure mindset, we’re here to help! You can reach The Financial Education Group by setting up an appointment with us here.

The new year is here, which means a fresh start to be the best, healthiest version of yourself, but don’t limit that to just physical health. Make 2025 the year of prioritizing your financial wellness!

As we welcome 2025, it’s the perfect time to refocus on your health and set the tone for your year. Remember, wealth and health often go hand in hand. Use this time to take a closer look at your financial wellness and identify areas where you can grow, improve, and create a stronger foundation for your future. From doing a general review of your budget to revamping your portfolio, harness the momentum of the new year to help set yourself up for a financially successful and healthy 2025!

1. Review Where Your Money is Going

Do you know where all your money is going? From small impulse buys to monthly bills, the start of the year is a great time to review your spending habits. Take a close look at your spending history to get a clear picture of where your money is going. To begin, think of your expenses as being in one of two groups: either needs or fun. For example, healthcare expenses would fall under needs, while a new wardrobe might fit into the fun category.

Next, break down your expenses into fixed, flexible, and discretionary costs. Fixed expenses are those that stay the same each month, like rent, mortgage, or insurance, while flexible (but necessary) expenses fluctuate, such as utility bills or groceries.

Discretionary costs can be decreased or increased. For instance, if you have necessary extra health or dental expenses for the month, you can choose to spend less on coffee or going out to eat. Remember to think about your life goals when you decide what is discretionary. If you have been putting only a small amount that’s left over each month into savings or retirement, consider changing that to have a fixed amount of savings deducted from your income before it ever hits your checking account.

This is also a great time to review your subscriptions to ensure they are still important to you as well as automatic payments to make sure there haven’t been any overlooked changes you need to rectify. Additionally, you may want to set up spending alerts on your accounts to help you monitor your finances throughout the year.

2. Update Your Budget

Once you understand where your money is going, you can begin to determine your necessary monthly spending. Start by identifying your fixed expenses and calculating an average for your flexible and discretionary expenses to estimate your total essential monthly costs for the new year. You can input this information into a spreadsheet or your budgeting app of choice to compare it with your monthly income. Whether you rely on active income from work or retirement income sources such as 401(k)s, pensions, or Social Security, having a clear understanding of how much money you need to maintain your lifestyle is key.

Living within your means should be your biggest goal, and that may require taking an honest look at your spending habits and developing a strategy to better manage your income. By comparing your income streams to your budget and keeping savings and other financial goals in mind, you can create a sustainable plan for the year ahead.

3. Have an Emergency Fund

Once your budget is set, ensure you have an emergency fund of liquid assets to cover at least three to six months of expenses. (Some people may want or need to have more than that, depending on their situation.) Your emergency fund should remain untouched unless needed for those necessary expenses. This will allow you some cushion during market downturns, unexpected expenses like a car breakdown, or hiccups in your income.

4. Check-Up on Your Portfolio

Your portfolio can play a significant role in your overall financial plan, so it’s important to reassess its performance and consider any adjustments for the year ahead. Take some time to reflect on your goals and any planned life events for the upcoming year. While you can’t predict the future, you can evaluate what you expect the year may bring.

This assessment can influence your risk tolerance and guide decisions about diversifying your investments. If your current strategy doesn’t align with what you anticipate for the new year, now is the perfect time to rebalance your portfolio to help support your financial goals.

5. Keep Your Goals in Mind

In everything you do, keep your goals at the forefront. Whether you’re aiming to build a nest egg for retirement, save for your child’s education, or leave a legacy for your loved ones, your financial strategy should reflect that. This is where strategic financial planning comes in.

For your bigger or more long-term goals, you may want to consider exploring strategies such as Roth conversions or charitable contributions to help with taxes, setting up 529 college savings plans for your children, or purchasing life insurance to create a tax-advantaged legacy for your loved ones. There are countless tools and strategies available, and the right ones for you will depend entirely on your unique situation and goals. By keeping your goals in mind with every financial decision you make this year, you’ll be supporting your long-term success.

Planning for the year ahead and the goals it entails can be stressful, but rest assured we’re here to help! If you need help with your financial wellness, give us a call! You can reach The Financial Education Group by setting up an appointment with us here.

Sources:

https://sfs.harvard.edu/financial-fitness-basics

https://solsticeseniorliving.com/financial-wellness-tips-for-seniors/

https://smartasset.com/investing/portfolio-management-tips

It’s that time of year again—the time when many people set ambitious goals but struggle to follow through on achieving them.

As you reflect on your financial health, it’s important to remember that everyone is in a different place financially. Tailoring your resolutions to fit your unique situation can make a significant difference. Here are five steps that can help you set and achieve your financial goals, along with suggestions and strategies for short-term, mid-term, and long-term goals to help keep you on track.

Step 1: Reflect on Your Current Financial Situation

Begin with a thorough examination of your existing financial landscape. Review your income, expenses, assets, and liabilities. This analysis will provide a comprehensive understanding of your economic standing and help you craft a personalized plan for your financial future.

Step 2: Establish Clear Objectives

Articulate your financial objectives clearly. Whether your aim is to build an emergency fund, plan for a dream vacation, buy a home, or prepare for retirement, identifying your goals sets the foundation for your financial journey. Consider the time frame associated with each objective, from short-term to long-term commitments. (See below for more.)

Step 3: Make Your Goals SMART

Adhering to the SMART criteria helps to ensure your goals are clear and achievable:

• Specific: Clearly define what you want to accomplish. For example, “Save $10,000 for a car down payment.”
• Measurable: Set specific amounts and deadlines, like “Save $500 per month for 20 months to reach $10,000 by a specific date.”
• Achievable: Make sure your goals are realistic within your current financial situation.
• Relevant: Align your financial goals with your overall life objectives.
• Time-Bound: Set a deadline for each goal to create a sense of urgency.

Step 4: Seek Professional Advice

Consider consulting a financial advisor, especially for complex goals like retirement planning or investment strategies. Advisors can provide tailored guidance and valuable insights to help you make informed decisions. Don’t hesitate to ask for help; their knowledge can greatly enhance your financial well-being.

Step 5: Stay Disciplined and Motivated

To achieve your goals, discipline is crucial. Regularly check your progress and celebrate milestones. Keep your ultimate dreams at the forefront of your mind. This personal financial journey requires consistency and enthusiasm.

Short-Term Financial Goal Ideas

• Create and Stick to a Budget

Establishing a budget is a foundational step in financial planning. Track your income and expenses to understand your financial habits and use budgeting tools to categorize your spending. Identify areas to cut back and allocate funds toward savings or debt repayment.

• Build an Emergency Fund

An emergency fund is important for financial stability. Start small with a goal of $500 to $1,000, and gradually expand it to cover three to six months of living expenses, or more depending on your situation. Consider automated savings transfers to this dedicated account, helping you prepare for unexpected financial shocks.

Mid-term Financial Goal Ideas

• Save for Major Life Events

Consider significant life events like buying a home or funding a child’s education. Start by estimating the total amount needed and set a timeline for achieving it, breaking it down into monthly savings targets.

• Pay Off Student Loans

If you have student loans, strategize to pay them off effectively. Explore refinancing options to help secure a lower interest rate while considering the potential loss of federal loan benefits.

Long-Term Financial Goal Ideas

• Save for Retirement

Experts recommend that you work toward a comfortable retirement by saving 10-15% of your income in tax-advantaged retirement accounts, or more if possible. As you get closer to retirement, you should work with an advisor to create a customized retirement income plan based on your personal retirement lifestyle goals. Estimate your desired annual expenses to help gauge how much you will need.

• Plan for Major Life Transitions

Consider potential long-term goals, such as caring for aging parents or planning for long-term care. Early planning and dedicated savings can help alleviate future financial pressure.

The Importance of Ongoing Financial Planning

Remember, achieving financial goals is not always a linear process. Life can throw unexpected challenges your way. It’s beneficial to remain flexible and adjust your goals as needed. Embrace the new year as an opportunity to shape your financial future, and take proactive steps toward achieving your dreams.

Call us and let’s talk about your goals for 2025! You can reach The Financial Education Group by setting up an appointment with us here.

Sources:

1. https://www.investopedia.com/articles/personal-finance/100516/setting-financial-goals/
2. https://www.cnbc.com/select/financial-new-years-resolutions/
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It’s back to school season—a perfect time to think about your children’s future. Parents and grandparents should start planning for college costs as early as possible.

Most Americans would do almost anything for their children and grandchildren, and sending them to college is a top priority for many. According to studies, more than 50% of parents are willing to go into debt to fund their child’s college education, and at least 95% of parent expect to cover at least half the costs.

The trouble is, college debt is extremely high—currently $1.77 trillion in the U.S. The average student loan debt amount is now $37,338 according to recent data.

Why is college debt so high? Well, for one thing, the average in-state tuition cost at public four-year institutions is $11,260 for the 2023-24 school year—and that’s per semester. That is about three times as high as it was in 1989-90, according to the College Board.

And on top of that, interest rates have risen. For the 2024-25 school year, federal parent PLUS loans will be at their highest point in more three decades, at a whopping fixed interest rate of 9.08% plus fees.

So, what is a loving parent or relative to do? Here are some of your options.

1) 529 Plans

A 529 plan, technically known as a “qualified tuition program” under Section 529 of the Internal Revenue Code, is an education savings plan off­ered by all 50 states and the District of Columbia. There are generally two types—prepaid tuition which allows you to lock in today’s tuition rates for the future college attendee, and the more popular 529 savings plan.

Keep in mind that you aren’t restricted to your own state’s plan. You can invest funds in any state’s plan, and your student can attend college in any state. Each state’s 529 plan is unique, with a diff­erent combination of sales channels, investment off­erings and fees. It can pay to shop around when choosing a plan because even if your state off­ers a tax deduction or credit for contributing to your state’s plan, that benefit might not stack up against the performance or lower cost of another state’s plan.

2) Roth IRAs

If a 529 plan doesn’t work for your family for some reason, a Roth IRA (individual retirement account) may be an option to consider. You can withdraw money from Roth IRA accounts to be used for college expenses for you, your spouse, children or grandchildren as long as the account has been in place for five years. If the account owner is under age 59-1/2, the only tax liability for college expenses will be on any withdrawn earnings—if over 59-1/2, the entire withdrawal amount is tax- and penalty-free for any purpose as long as you’ve owned the account for five years.

3) Life Insurance

Permanent life insurance policies, such as whole or universal life, include both a death benefit and a savings/cash account component which you can borrow against to pay for college.

4) Annuities

Annuities are another option to consider.

How College Savings Can Impact Financial Aid Eligibility

Working with a qualified financial and tax professional is advised when planning for college costs. Legislation is always changing for parents and grandparents looking to get a jump-start in funding their child or grandchild’s education. For example, due to the FAFSA Simplification Act of 2020, in July of 2023 the EFC (expected family contribution) was replaced by the SAI (student aid index).

Where the EFC bottomed out at $0, the SAI goes as low as -$1,500, meaning students can qualify for more need-based financial aid. SAI also simplifies the FAFSA form itself, drastically reducing the number of questions. Where possible, the new law mandates data received directly from the IRS be used to calculate the SAI and federal Pell Grant eligibility.

Where the new SAI may truly be a boon to students who need more aid is through 529 plans owned by extended family members. As of July 2023, 529 accounts owned by grandparents, aunts, uncles or others are not counted as assets, nor are qualified distributions taken from them counted as income. Therefore, they no longer have significant impact on eligibility for financial aid.

FAFSA (free application for federal student aid) and the CSS (college scholarship service)

While it is true that life insurance, annuities and 529 plans owned by anyone other than parents or students are not counted as assets on the FAFSA, they may be counted on the CSS (College Scholarship Service) profile, another aid form used for aid by about 240 colleges in addition to the FAFSA. The CSS profile is extremely complex and steps are being taken to simplify it, but changes to the form have not been finalized.

More Resources

Federal Student Aid Estimator https://studentaid.gov/aid-estimator/

FAFSA https://studentaid.gov

If you have any questions or would like to discuss your family’s financial goals, please call us! You can reach The Financial Education Group by setting up an appointment with us here.

This article is for general information purposes only and should not be relied upon for financial or tax advice. In every case, it is recommended that you work with financial, tax and legal professionals to determine what might be best for you and your family based on your unique situation and circumstances.

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It’s Women’s History Month! Let’s go over why financial planning is important for women.

While there’s little doubt women have taken major strides professionally and socially over even the past few years, it’s still all too common for them to be left out of the financial discussion. Whether that happens on their own accord or because they simply become an afterthought in the conversation, their exclusion can be extremely damaging not just to their own future but to both members of a couple or an entire family. Well, this month is Women’s History Month, so while there is never a bad time to celebrate the women who mean so much to us, this is the perfect opportunity to discuss their role in financial planning and its importance. Let’s go over five reasons why financial planning is crucial for women.

1. It Can be Empowering

Whether a woman is a working professional, a stay-at-home parent, a single individual or a retiree, her role goes far beyond the simple financial aspect of the planning process. It should also be uplifting and empowering, giving you a sense of purpose when it comes to both your money and your dreams. It can also build confidence when you truly understand the systems our society is built around, and being financially literate has the potential to make anyone feel like their goals are achievable and they can find the right path, no matter what the future holds.

It’s also about equality. While money isn’t everything, there’s no denying its power and ability to dictate a person’s ability to live a comfortable lifestyle. As an equal partner in a couple, or even as an individual, understanding financial concepts and knowing you have an easy-to-follow roadmap toward your goals can be motivating and inspiring.

2. Women Live Longer Than Men

According to the CDC, the average life expectancy for women is 79 years, while it’s just 73 for men ^[1]. While this might not sound drastic, that six-year period can feel like an eternity for those who face any sort of financial struggles. That means on average, women must strategize for six more years of living expenses. While it might be true that if your spouse passes away first you may only have to cover yourself when it comes to costs like medical bills, food, everyday living and more, it’s important to remember new obstacles that potentially come into play. A mortgage payment, for example, might remain the same, while only one person’s retirement money might be coming in.

That’s why planning for adequate retirement income is critical for women. For instance, some pensions are only paid to one spouse. And while you might inherit retirement accounts like 401(k)s and IRAs, you will only receive one Social Security payment going forward if your spouse passes away before you. While it will be the larger of the two checks, it is still necessary to have a plan if your income were to decline.

Additionally, longer lifespans, especially after the loss of a partner, can potentially lead to the need for long-term care, which is extremely pricey and not covered by Medicare.

3. Women Make Less on Average

In addition to longer lifespans, women tend to earn less than men for a multitude of reasons. In fact, a study from the Pew Research Center showed women earn, on average, 82% of what men earn, which is not much better than the 80% they earned more than 20 years ago ^[2]. This is true despite social advancements that have led to more women in power as well as further discussion about the gap. Of course, there are many theories about why that gap exists. For example, some women work in different industries offering lower average wages and fewer benefits.

Still, however, even choosing a different career path cannot always help, especially when pay is oftentimes determined by experience or hours worked. The obligation of caretaking, especially for children, typically falls on women, meaning they are sometimes forced to exit the workforce and forgo work experience and potential advancement. Lower wages also mean they oftentimes have less to put away for a retirement that is already longer than the average man’s, and those lower wages might also equate to lower Social Security or pension payments. Simply put, women face more obstacles, possibly further necessitating a proper financial and retirement plan.

4. Women Are Often Responsible for Loved Ones

As previously mentioned, women are often saddled with the responsibility of exiting the workforce to raise and provide for children, forcing them to forgo opportunities to gain experience and earn more money. Additionally, they may be forced to tap into savings, income from part-time roles or shared income with their spouse to ensure the house is properly run – a full-time job in and of itself. Again, that can leave less money for a woman to contribute to savings and investment vehicles for retirement.

Additionally, caregiving responsibilities do not always end with children. Many women between the ages of 40 and 60, which is often a high-earning period used to sock away funds as you approach retirement, are part of what’s being referred to as the “Sandwich Generation.” In this sandwich, children are one slice of bread while elderly parents are the other, forcing women to be the meat, veggies and condiments between the two to financially support both parties. Furthermore, women make up 60% of the Sandwich Generation, and they spend, on average, 45 minutes per day more than men caring for children and parents ^[3]. That obligation can make it even more difficult to save for retirement, whether it’s because they’re forced to step away from work or they’re using more of their funds to provide for dependents.

5. Women Are Set to Inherit the Majority of the Wealth in the US

Presently, women control about a third of this country’s wealth, but we are heading toward a major change in financial power. In one of the biggest transitions of wealth in American history, women are set to inherit the better part of $68 trillion ^[4]. This should give some women a significant advantage in their own retirement plans.

But with a great inheritance comes great responsibility. Without a proper plan or a firm direction for those trillions of dollars, it can be moot. That’s why it’s crucial for women to take an active role in financial planning now. They shouldn’t wait until they actually inherit the money; they should be working with those they might inherit that money from, as well as a financial professional, to gain the right tools and knowledge to purpose that influx of cash for a long, successful retirement.

If you’re ready to become more involved in the financial planning process, please give us a call today! You can reach The Financial Education Group by setting up an appointment with us here.

Sources:

1. https://www.cnbc.com/2023/03/01/why-american-men-die-younger-than-women-on-average-and-how-to-fix-it.html
2. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/03/01/gender-pay-gap-facts/
3. https://www.theskimm.com/stateofwomen/sandwich-generation-costs-women
4. https://www.cnbc.com/2023/12/12/why-the-68-trillion-great-wealth-transfer-is-an-opportunity-for-women.html

Money can be a major obstacle for couples. Here are a few ways to overcome it.

Do you remember when you first met your partner? So many things about them might have captivated you. Maybe it was their eyes, their hair or their smile. Maybe you started talking and you fell in love with their outlook on life, their fun-loving attitude or their sense of humor. We’re willing to bet, however, it wasn’t your aligned financial philosophies that initially drew you to each other, even if financial stability was high on your list of priorities for potential partners.

At the same time, maybe that should be something you look for in your other half. Nearly 50% of Americans say they argue with their significant other about money, while 41% of Gen Xers and 29% of baby boomers attribute their divorce to financial disagreements ^[1]. One of our goals is to give you the stability that can eliminate financial stress, trimming your worries when it comes to your happily ever after. Here are six tips for couples looking to achieve their financial goals together!

1. Communicate Effectively

Of course, communication is the key to a healthy relationship. It’s no secret. In fact, you’ve probably heard this old adage your entire life, but hearing it is different from comprehending it and acting upon it. Additionally, while it’s important when sharing your needs and overcoming conflict, it’s just as important to have open, honest, confident communication about your finances. In our experience, the majority of the battle is normalizing the conversation. Remember, you’re not just combining finances; you’re combining your entire lives, so this discussion shouldn’t be taboo. To make it easier, it can be a good idea to start with simple topics. Go over things like income, how you feel about different retirement accounts, your experience investing or how comfortable you feel with risk. You can then let the conversation naturally evolve to encompass more complex topics, or you can tackle new problems as they arise. It’s key to consider that you’re equal partners, both in life and in money, and it’s crucial to have these discussions before and during a serious relationship.

2. Choose a Strategy

Once you’ve broken the barrier to financial discussion, it can be helpful to choose a strategy for how you’ll combine your finances. Some couples, for example, find it easiest to simply combine all their assets, giving meaning to the phrase, “What’s mine is yours.” Others, however, may feel more comfortable keeping their assets separate and handling their own personal expenses. Most commonly, a couple will land somewhere in the middle with a few select combined accounts and some solo accounts. This can help each person maintain some of their individuality and independence while also offering some guidance as to who’s responsible for different financial obligations. Spend some time discussing these options with your partner, and be completely open and honest to foster healthy communication in the present and future.

3. Set Measurable, Realistic Goals

Identify goals that are important to both of you, especially if you want to achieve them together. Whether those are short- term goals or long-term, this gives you something to work toward, unifying your vision and objectives to keep you on the same page. It can also help you maintain control over your financial decisions and your priorities. Ensuring those goals are measurable and realistic is also important. In addition to the satisfaction that comes with watching yourself climb toward your objectives, reaching measurable milestones can be motivating, pushing you and your partner to continue saving and spending with the future in mind.

4. Budget Effectively

As a couple, you’re a team. That means working together to reach common goals. There’s also power in finding financial strength together, so constructing a budget, controlling your spending, and expressing your thoughts freely can help you grow as a duo. When building that budget, it’s important to start by having a conversation about your priorities. Lay them out clearly, and work together to determine which expenses are “needs” and which expenses are “wants.” You’ll probably want to prioritize essentials, like food, your home, your transportation, and other necessary living expenses. You may want to move on to outstanding debt, determining how much you can realistically pay down in a given period. As partners, you should also hold each other accountable, knowing that sticking to the budget is what’s better for both. Then, know you can tweak your budget as your circumstances change and evolve.

5. Choose the Right Financial Partner

The right financial partner or professional can help you develop and work toward your goals. Oftentimes, this means finding someone who understands your current circumstances, is able to read you and your partner as people, and is willing to work in your best interests. This can be tricky, but remember, this is your livelihood we’re talking about. It’s more than understandable if you’re skeptical when choosing someone to control your assets. Additionally, if you think it’s the right time to start working with a professional, ask many questions to determine if they’re the right person to help you achieve your goals. While you may feel like you’re on the hot seat as they ask about your saving and spending, it’s just as much of an opportunity for you to assess how effective or helpful they will be in the construction of your plan or portfolio.

6. Develop an Actionable Plan

Once you understand your cashflow, habits, budget and goals as a couple, it’s time to develop a plan that offers specific direction and sets you into motion. Oftentimes, this is the blueprint for your future, giving both you and your partner rules to adhere to. It should also be comprehensive, meaning that it accounts for each aspect of your life. Determine how you’ll utilize specific retirement accounts, as well as if you’re comfortable having your money exposed to market risk. You can also explore options for insurance policies, which can be crucial if you want to protect your loved ones in the event of the worst. Furthermore, revisit your plan on a regular basis. Maybe your risk tolerance has changed, you feel you can contribute more to your savings vehicles, your beneficiaries have changed, you need different levels of insurance coverage, or you’re ready to graduate into retirement. Your plan plays a key role in achieving both your short- and long-term goals, and having one that you believe in can make all the difference.

We believe that money should never hinder your relationship. If you have any questions about how you can effectively combine and develop a plan for your finances as a couple, give us a call today! You can reach The Financial Education Group by setting up an appointment with us here.

Sources:

1. https://www.marketwatch.com/story/this-common-behavior-is-the-no-1-predictor-of-whether-youll-get-divorced-2018-01-10

What does financial freedom mean to you? It could give you the opportunity to pursue personal goals and milestones while shouldering less of a financial burden.

It’s true. Money can’t buy happiness. You can’t simply walk into a store and purchase it over the counter or off the shelf. It can, however, open avenues that allow you to pursue happiness, giving you the flexibility to chase what makes you feel fulfilled, understood and complete. That flexibility is called financial freedom, and it occurs when you’re no longer beholden to restrictions placed upon your goals and your desires by your unique circumstances.

We also truly believe that financial freedom is achievable for everyone, no matter their income level, present outlook or future objectives. But what opportunities does financial freedom typically unlock, and how do those change as you age and progress through both your life and your career? Let’s go over a few phases and milestones as well as the possibilities that may be availed to you through securing your financial independence.

20s

It’s never too early to begin your quest for financial freedom. Similarly, it’s never too early to actually achieve it. In your 20s, it might begin with the ability to start paying off those expensive student loans that can potentially bog you down later in life. You should be in the beginning phases of your career, looking to make your mark, climb a ladder and experience a tremendous amount of growth as you learn who you are in a professional capacity. Use this time to learn and accept the traditional lessons while also voicing what makes you unique, all while collecting paychecks that ideally allow you to pay down high-interest debt, make a down payment on your first home or consider starting your family. While young and spry, financial flexibility can also allow you to travel, plan for a wedding, move cities to chase career opportunities, or start a side hustle or passion project. In your 20s, the possibilities are endless, and detaching yourself from financial limits can help you make the most of your youth. And remember, saving any amount, no matter how small, can have a huge impact on your future financial freedom because of compound interest. As Einstein said, “Compound interest is the eighth wonder of the world. He who understands it, earns it … he who doesn’t … pays it.”

30s

By your 30s, you might be a bit more settled, either with a family or an idea of when you’ll begin your family. You may also have a better idea of who you are, your goals, your dreams, your passions and your desired lifestyle. Financial freedom in this stage can allow you to indulge in those dreams, potentially with grander vacations, elimination of hand-cuffing debt, continued repayment or payoff of your home loan and car, and the ability to provide for your loved ones. If you’re lucky enough to eliminate debt, it can be a great time to consider saving or investing more for the future while continuing to maintain your current lifestyle expenditures. You can also consider an estate plan or a life insurance policy to protect those who might rely on you, giving both you and your beneficiaries some peace of mind should something happen to you.

40s

Once you reach your 40s, you’re likely quite used to the life you’ve built and the family you’ve raised. You may also be more comfortable financially, as you’re deep into your career and have adapted with the industry you work in. That’s why in this stage, freedom is about satisfaction. With more security in your profession and better backing in your bank account, you could continue to travel, look for a second home and provide for your beneficiaries. Additionally, your children may be reaching the point at which they need to consider how they’ll pay for college. Though parent-owned 529 accounts do figure into how much federal aid a student qualifies for, other methods, such as permanent life insurance policies, may not, making them a potentially valuable tool. At the same time, your parents may be progressing into their next stage of life, and they may need your help whether that’s simply via your time or your funds. Proper preparation may be able to help you accomplish all of these.

50s

If you experienced financial freedom in previous decades and were able to pay off outstanding debt, home loans, car loans, student loans and more, your 50s could be the perfect time to sock money away for retirement. You’re now closer than ever to retirement, making this the most important time to ensure that your accounts are well-funded, you’re prepared to move on to a fixed income, and you’re protected from market volatility in the final years of your career and first few years of your retirement. If you haven’t in a minute, it could also be a good idea to reassess your beneficiaries, your estate plan and your life insurance policy. You may be able to make necessary tweaks and plan to pass your wealth as tax-efficiently as possible. Additionally, if you’ve shored up all aspects of your financial and retirement plans, you may have some flexibility to spend on things like vacations, charities, vow renewals or other recreational expenditures.

60s

In your 60s, you may be on the cusp of retirement or already in retirement. You can file for Social Security at age 62, but it’s important to remember that filing prior to your full retirement age will permanently reduce your benefit. That’s why this could be a good time to do your final pre-retirement planning, which could include the creation of income streams to keep you afloat while you wait until your full retirement age. You may also be in a comfortable enough position to begin looking at vacation homes, pursuing your various hobbies, checking off bucket list items or even just enjoying a little bit of downtime. Grandchildren may also be on the way, or you may already have them. In that case, financial freedom can grant you the power to spoil them, either with memories that will last or with a long-term college fund. Unlike parent-owned 529 plans, grandparent-owned 529 plans do not count when calculating how much aid a student qualifies for, so they may be helpful tools for your grandchildren looking to achieve higher education.

70s

At this point, it’s likely that you’re retired. Not only have you reached your full retirement age; you may have also permanently increased your benefit by waiting through that special birthday. Now, with financial freedom, you may have the monetary means to match your ample free time. The world is your oyster, and with sufficient retirement funds, you can plan fun things depending on your hobbies and your passions. If you enjoy travelling, it could be a great time to take that once-in-a-lifetime trip that you no longer have to request time off work for. You might also be able to tack onto a collection you’ve been building for decades. Maybe retirement simply means more time to spend with friends and family, and now that your time and your finances are flexible, you can develop those relationships without any inhibiting factors.

80s and Beyond

Though you may slow down as you get older, financial freedom never becomes less important. In this phase of life, it may be critical to consider the possibility of needing long-term care. Roughly 70% of Americans over the age of 65 will need some type of long-term care ^[1], so while it’s nothing to be ashamed of, it can be a good idea to be prepared. Still, however, you don’t have to stop living your life. You can continue to utilize your free time as you please, but your hobbies may change. You may want to prioritize your health and your personal connections. You may also discover that you have a shift in philosophy, finding joy in activities that require less physical activity such as visiting art shows or attending theatre performances. Furthermore, though you should consistently be revisiting your estate plan throughout the years, this is perhaps the most crucial stage. Reviewing your beneficiaries and ensuring that your tax professional and estate attorney are helping you pass your wealth in the most tax-efficient manner possible can help your loved ones attain financial freedom themselves.

Financial freedom may look different for everyone, but universally, it can be the key to unlocking the comfortability and security to achieve your dreams. Give us a call today to see how we can help you design a plan to become financially liberated and bring those dreams to life! You can reach The Financial Education Group by setting up an appointment with us here.

This article is not to be construed as financial advice. It is provided for informational purposes only and it should not be relied upon. It is recommended that you check with your financial advisor, tax professional and legal professionals when making any investment or any change to your retirement plan. Your investments, insurance and savings vehicles should match your risk tolerance and be suitable as well as what’s best for your personal financial situation.

Sources:

1. https://www.singlecare.com/blog/news/long-term-care-statistics/

While so many people dream of their special day, it’s worth asking the question: Is it worth the price?

Love conquers all, right? It’s a nice thought, but as the price of having a fantasy wedding continues to soar, so many couples are left wondering if it’s worth it to have a grand showcase and celebration for their first moments bonded in holy matrimony.  In fact, the numbers appear to back these concerns, as the average cost of a wedding in 2022 was $30,000, a $2,000 increase from the 2021 total ^[1]. When the median household income in the United States is just over $70,000, it’s easy to see how a large wedding can upset the delicate financial balance inside your home ^[2].

Now, we aren’t telling you to elope, arrange for a courthouse marriage or even forgo the ceremony you’ve been looking forward to since you were young. We are, however, suggesting that there might be areas in which costs can be cut, possibly freeing up funds for potentially more important or desirable expenses and luxuries. The Knot, a popular wedding-planning site, assembled a list of just some of the most common expenses you should expect to incur when planning for your wedding, along with their average price in 2022^[1].

-Average cost of reception venue: $11,200
-Average cost of wedding photographer: $2,600
-Average cost of wedding/event planner: $1,900
-Average cost of live band: $3,900
-Average cost of reception DJ: $1,500
-Average cost of florist: $2,400
-Average cost of videographer: $2,100
-Average cost of wedding dress: $1,900
-Average cost of wedding cake: $510
-Average cost of catering: (price per person): $75
-Average cost of transportation: $980
-Average cost of favors: $440
-Average cost of rehearsal dinner: $2,400
-Average cost of engagement ring: $5,800
-Average cost of wedding invitations: $510
-Average cost of hairstylist: $130
-Average cost of makeup artist: $120

While this can add up quickly, it can give you a good idea of where you might spend the majority of your budget as well as where you may be able to make some cuts. First and foremost, the guest list appears to be the best place to start. In 2022, couples hosting weddings with 50 or fewer guests spent an average of nearly $15,000, while couples who invited between 51 and 100 people paid nearly $25,000. The average price for a wedding with more than 100 guests was just over $38,000, so trimming your guest list to only those who absolutely must be there can be helpful if you’re looking to bring down the bill ^[1].

Obviously for some with larger families, this might not be an option, but the average couple spends roughly $266 per wedding guest, so slicing your guest list by 50 people can save you an average of more than $13,000. It’s also important to know that being more selective with your guest list doesn’t necessarily mean that your wedding will be less significant or impactful. In fact, you might even enjoy the feeling of a more intimate wedding with your closest friends and family whom you expect to be around for the rest of your life.

Another great way to save money is by hiring a wedding planner and using a budgeting tool ^[3]. While the services of a wedding planner average about $2,000^[1], the entire job of the event planner is to remain within budget. They may also know other ways of saving or finding deals that aren’t available to a couple that plans for a wedding just one time. Furthermore, whether you’re keeping tabs or your planner is, a budgeting tool can help you track your spending and ensure that you don’t spend in excess on one particular category. It might also help you get more creative and work within your means and imagination, possibly even making your wedding a more personal experience.

Moreover, if you’re certain you’d like to bring your childhood dreams to life, you can save money by planning early. In addition to increasing your options by aligning your timeline with venues and vendors, you might be able to secure a more buyer-friendly rate while still allowing yourself the flexibility to opt for better or more cost-effective options should they avail themselves in the near future. Remember, pushing out your wedding doesn’t lessen the strength of your bond. Marriage is intended to last forever, and extravagance at the cost of debilitating debt can potentially lead to a more difficult happily ever after.

Additionally, your wedding may be more reflective of your financial circumstances than you even realize. For example, it’s important to communicate and prioritize. Work with your partner to find areas in which you’re willing to compromise and areas in which you aren’t. If you’re a foodie and you want to remember how delicious the various dishes were, it might be a good idea to spring for your top choice in caterers. At the same time, if your family doesn’t drink alcohol, you might be able to save around $2,500 by having a dry wedding ^[4].

So, to answer the original question of whether or not a wedding is worth the money, yes, but it’s probably only worth it if you plan within your means, which can depend on your unique situation, your relationship and your goals. If a grand wedding is within your budget, you aren’t interested in sparing any expense and your pursuit of other goals isn’t hindered, it may be worthwhile to invite extra people or tack on an open bar. However, if you’re looking for a more cost-effective way to show your love, you can explore other avenues or cut costs without sacrificing or devaluing your marriage.

Whether you are planning on paying for your own wedding—or helping your grown children or grandchildren pay for theirs—let’s talk about how a wedding fits into your financial plan. You can reach The Financial Education Group by setting up an appointment with us here.

Sources:

1. https://www.theknot.com/content/average-wedding-cost
2. https://www.census.gov/library/publications/2022/demo/p60-276.html
3. https://www.theknot.com/content/ways-to-save-money-on-wedding
4. https://www.theknot.com/content/average-cost-wedding-alcohol